A bad relationship is something,which never leaves you at peace.
But a relationship with few fights on silly reasons cannot be termed as bad , it's about you tried hard to adjust , to forgive, to love but when all your efforts are in vain, then you can label it as a bad relationship.
People still fear to get out or walk away from such kind of relation, mostly because they get habitual of it, they fear what if I don't get someone else to spend their life with, what if the person in future is worst than this,and if the children are involved then the fear gets worst.
But if there's nothing left in the current relationship, then why to fear of getting out of it. Atleast you will be free from all the emotional and physical trauma. It's hard but good to leave. Children of fighting couples are more emotionally weak than the the children of single parents. You may or may not get any partner in future but now atleast you have a chance to find someone better or a better yourself. I am not in favour of breaking relationships but there's no point in watering a dead plant, instead try to plant a new seed.
Breakup is not the end of life,it's just the bend of life, infact it's the start of new life with a new you, who is more strong, more capable of handling things , more confident and a more experienced person.
I myself was into a really toxic relationship where I had to deal with a cheating partner, it was really an emotional torture for me, it felt like there's nothing left in life. I, my son and everyone around me were unhappy with our relationship still I tried giving him n number of chances but he couldn't resist himself. I myself was struggling with the same fear to break this relation out. But then I decided of getting out of it and now few months later I am married to a person who is loving , most importantly loyal and a family man.
My life gave me a second chance because I gave it a chance by leaving my toxic relation.Give yourself and your life a second chance and see how beautiful the life will be...
But a relationship with few fights on silly reasons cannot be termed as bad , it's about you tried hard to adjust , to forgive, to love but when all your efforts are in vain, then you can label it as a bad relationship.
People still fear to get out or walk away from such kind of relation, mostly because they get habitual of it, they fear what if I don't get someone else to spend their life with, what if the person in future is worst than this,and if the children are involved then the fear gets worst.
But if there's nothing left in the current relationship, then why to fear of getting out of it. Atleast you will be free from all the emotional and physical trauma. It's hard but good to leave. Children of fighting couples are more emotionally weak than the the children of single parents. You may or may not get any partner in future but now atleast you have a chance to find someone better or a better yourself. I am not in favour of breaking relationships but there's no point in watering a dead plant, instead try to plant a new seed.
Breakup is not the end of life,it's just the bend of life, infact it's the start of new life with a new you, who is more strong, more capable of handling things , more confident and a more experienced person.
I myself was into a really toxic relationship where I had to deal with a cheating partner, it was really an emotional torture for me, it felt like there's nothing left in life. I, my son and everyone around me were unhappy with our relationship still I tried giving him n number of chances but he couldn't resist himself. I myself was struggling with the same fear to break this relation out. But then I decided of getting out of it and now few months later I am married to a person who is loving , most importantly loyal and a family man.
My life gave me a second chance because I gave it a chance by leaving my toxic relation.Give yourself and your life a second chance and see how beautiful the life will be...
It's just a thought, think over it.....
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